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Everyone knows one or has been one — the good girl stuck on the bad boy. John Farrar, a counselor educator at Central Michigan University, calls it a phenomenon: the reoccurring nightmare of capable women choosing needy and dysfunctional men. Females who are charming, Ending a hookup educated and successfully employed mysteriously compromising their lives and futures by committing to, for lack of a better word, losers.

But what makes the leather-clad, motorcycle-riding bad boy so appealing? What does she see in the commitment-phobic, party animal man-child? For the past several years, Farrar, a member of the American Counseling Association, has conducted his own research into why women fall for Mr.

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Farrar has analyzed the survey data to pinpoint reasons why women choose negative types of men. In addition, often women have been able to point to more than one motivation, one strand, that generated their relational choice. Farrar notes that nurturing is the most common strand identified by women in the survey.

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While men, through the millennia, have been hunter-gatherers, women tended to the nest and the offspring. It is a traditionally held view that, even in the age of the computer, feminism and the The naked divorce household, women retain their biologically driven instincts to look after others.

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Do nice guys Long island escort last? In the case of women in this strand, yes, says Farrar. These guys are seen as more exciting than the conventional, good guy. In many ways, he says, this strand represents a polar opposite of the first two strands.

Many women and girls often speak ambiguously when they fit into the excitement strand.

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Conversely, they are puzzled and, at times, disappointed in their own weakness in allowing themselves to be manipulated by the Rockys of the social world. But some girls and women are drawn to these men and that excitement nevertheless.

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In many ways, it imitates the experiences of young women who are seduced into lives of prostitution. Promises of support, affection and protection later generate only neglect, disdain and abandonment. Women who seek to be nurtured invite essentially the same deteriorating progression.

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The choices of these girls and women have their roots in their developmental experiences, principally in their relationships with the men who served — or more likely, did not serve — as father figures. This is a common strand identified by more mature women, Farrar notes. The female who is seeking control, either consciously or unconsciously, may be exhibiting learned behavior from a dominant mother. The woman who seeks control is buying into a trade-off situation.

The compromise involves tolerating the nonachieving behavior of a mate for the right and ability to make Can you log into tinder without facebook decisions, to call the shots, in the relationship. This strand s for why a given woman may concede that a given male is attractive without actually being attracted to him.

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Conversely, it also explains why a woman is drawn to a male who, on a more rational, cognitive level, she concedes has seemingly little to offer in terms of physical appearance or social status. Farrar admits that it might Biblical dating guidelines extreme, but says the chemistry strand offers an explanation for relationship choices that seemingly cannot be ed for otherwise.

After identifying the strands, Farrar took his research a step further and developed strategies to help women choose healthier relationships. Among his suggestions:. Farrar says many people ask him why a man is so interested in researching such a woman-centered topic.

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Women often recognize up front that this type of man has a few issues, Atwood says, but they also notice and are drawn in by his good qualities. They take him on as a sort of personal project, she says, thinking they can help to fix him, heal him or solve his problems. The way to rehabilitate the wounded guy is to kick him in the rear endconfront him and make him face up What are hallucinogens and what are their effects his issues.

We are so hardwired to want to nurture or caretake.

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Often, a woman will try to be the caretaker and completely overlook the fact that she needs a partner who can also care for her and meet her needs too. Atwood strongly suggests that women keep the pace of the relationship slow enough to really discover the character and values of the man they are interested in. You have to take a step back. Women need to implement a dating process that will protect them while they are figuring out if this is someone who is compatible and has Brady TX housewives personals character.

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